Chapter 663: Do you think it's possible?

Dong Yulian felt a bit nervous. It had been seven years, and it had never been like today.

She wanted to know, when a girl marries into such a family, and it goes against all her previous cognitions, everything the mother-in-law does looks awkward no matter how you look at it, but the family members all think the mother-in-law does well, and even praise her as simply too cute, etc.

When encountering such a family, encountering such a mother-in-law, what should one do?

Dong Yulian wanted to know too much.

Whether it's enjoying happiness or suffering, there must be a clear statement.

Lu Qiao looked at Dong Yulian.

She didn't feel that Dong Yulian was looking for trouble, nor did she feel that she was not knowing how to be happy in the midst of happiness.

The Lin family's environment is very good, and everyone is saying that Dong Yulian has entered a lucky nest.

But their values don't match.

Dong Yulian, the person involved, knows it best.

On one hand, she feels she is indeed lucky, and on the other hand, she is jealous of her mother-in-law living as she pleases.

Deep in her heart, she also wants to be like her mother-in-law, ignoring everything and doing nothing.

But she should not be able to do it.

At the very least, she cannot do it with peace of mind.

This has something to do with some cognitions Dong Yulian has developed since she was a child, or it has something to do with her family.

And she loves her husband Lin Chengze, so naturally she will feel sorry for him.

She is reluctant to order Lin Chengze to do this or that, but her mother-in-law doesn't care whether Lin Chengze is tired or hard-working at all.

So every time she sees these, Dong Yulian is indignant in her heart.

If her husband also felt this way, then this matter would be simple. The two would become natural allies and could go together to confront the mother-in-law.

But in fact, Lin Chengze is already accustomed to it.

He has never felt that doing so is a problem.

He is not unwilling.

Just like Dong Yulian never felt that her thinking this way might also be a problem.

She feels her mother-in-law is awkward, but in fact, she is the most awkward one.

Lu Qiao said frankly: "In fact, this is very simple. If it were me, first of all, I wouldn't feel sorry for a husband who enjoys it, nor would I worry about the father-in-law who manages the housework. Since I don't have to do the things at home, I naturally have no reason to point fingers."

Dong Yulian's mouth opened, obviously wanting to refute Lu Qiao's words, but she didn't say anything.

"You've only been in this family for seven years, yet you harbor the delusion that you can change the lifestyle this family has maintained for decades all by yourself. Do you think that's possible?"

"I may be speaking a bit directly, but I still want to ask, Sister Dong, what right do you have to be dissatisfied? From what position are you looking down on your mother-in-law's way of life?"

Dong Yulian listened very carefully, obviously she also wanted to solve this problem.

So for Lu Qiao's questioning, she felt she should be speechless.

"Since ancient times, whether it's a counterattack or a battle, one must have a legitimate reason... Can you understand what it means to have a legitimate reason?"

Dong Yulian of course understands this, she is also a high school graduate.

That is to have a legitimate reason, to stand in the correct position, and to be widely recognized.

So does she have these above?

She can't tell others about the family affairs.

But roughly, even if she doesn't say it, others know it.

But almost everyone, while praising the mother-in-law for her good fate, is also praising her for her good fate, and saying things like "not the same family, not entering the same door," and some even say "what kind of mother-in-law, what kind of daughter-in-law."

Many times this seems like a strange circle.

She also knows that some of her thoughts are wrong, because when she occasionally complains at home, her mother scolds her for not knowing how to be happy in the midst of happiness, saying that if all women were like her, then there would be no neighborhood office in this world.

But in fact, it's not like this.

She always feels that breathing is not smooth in that family, and it always seems like there is a breath held somewhere.

Dong Yulian nodded and said: "Of course I know, but there is no way. Sometimes when I see that scene after scene, I can't control wanting to do something."

Lu Qiao sighed and said sincerely: "Maybe there are some places I don't understand very well, but just now when Sister Lin was describing this matter and your family situation, you didn't raise any objections, which proves that Sister Lin is seeking truth from facts, not adding oil and vinegar, nor skipping it in one stroke.

At the same time, it also proves that the men in the Lin family are not chauvinistic. They respect women and love women, including you. You could clearly be the beneficiary, so why do you put yourself in such an awkward situation now?"

Lu Qiao paused, and then said: "In this world, women are harder than men.

Since ancient times, there has been a focus on men being in charge of the outside and women being in charge of the inside, but now women have walked out of the house, but being in charge of the inside is still being in charge of the inside, but they also share the task of supporting the family with men.

Not only do they have to earn money to support the family, but they also have to manage housework, get pregnant and have children, take care of children, and even take care of parents-in-law...

Sister Dong, I will also speak bluntly. Meeting the Lin family is indeed your luck, but you didn't grasp this luck. Your imbalance and your awkwardness make you always stand on the opposite side of your mother-in-law, instead of following the trend and joining your mother-in-law's ranks."

Dong Yulian's expression was blank, as if she didn't know what to do.

But she was shocked in her heart.

No one has ever talked to her like this.

She has always felt that she is sensible, why say she is unreasonable?

But in fact, what right does she have to change her mother-in-law's lifestyle?

Who does she think she is?!

Lu Qiao continued: "Sister Dong, but this is not your fault alone. In fact, everyone has responsibility, and even every family around you has responsibility. If you want to talk about it, this society also has responsibility."

Dong Yulian looked up at Lu Qiao, her eyes were blank but there was also a glimmer of light in them, which was different from the desperate, painful, and dead-hearted state just now.

Lu Qiao didn't intend to say more.

This matter of the Lin family, from the outside, seems to be only Dong Yulian's fault.

It is her being out of tune, her being stubborn, and her going all the way to the dark.

To put it seriously, it is that she can't stand her mother-in-law living such a calm and elegant life.

It's like a metaphor: everyone is in the rain, why do you want to hold an umbrella, so I tear your umbrella to pieces!

But in fact, Dong Yulian's parents and the Lin family are responsible, but now it is obviously not the time to investigate responsibility. Things have reached this point, and the heart of Chairwoman Lin's mother has been drawn with a very deep, very deep scar.

It is like an orchid raised in a greenhouse. One day a hail falls from the sky and hits its leaves. This kind of injury is something she has never experienced before, so the impression is the deepest.

Everyone can forgive Dong Yulian, but Sister Lin's mother-in-law will not forgive.

And Sister Lin's mother-in-law is the center of the family.

If she doesn't forgive, then no one can do anything.

The marriage of the two should be very difficult to continue.

After all, Sister Lin's mother is the one who was hurt the most.

What you lost is marriage, what I lost is a toe.

The reason why I want to talk to Dong Yulian alone is to let her not narrow her path.

It is completely possible to broaden her thinking and look at women like her mother-in-law correctly. ===== CHAPTER 664 =====