Chapter 1428
NO. 44: That really is somewhat hard to predict.
Even when facing emotional issues, everyone is eager to expound on complete equality to prove they are not biased.
But in fact, what people are truly enthusiastic about is comparison.
They will even subconsciously compare.
The people around us have an order, the people in our hearts have weight, and even the same sentence, when spoken by different people, has differing persuasiveness.
The so-called three-six-nine ranks are deeply buried equally in everyone's heart, becoming a part most people are unwilling to admit.
But since there is a majority, there naturally is also a small minority that differs.
This group is willing to admit their inequality in treating others, and the moment they admit this, they gain an advantage that is crystal clear compared to the former.
They can more clearly understand their own needs, optimize their way of survival, and moreover hope to extend their theory to others——
——analyzing others' internal three-six-nine ranks, thereby understanding their inner selves.
The human heart is complex, but interpersonal relationships are not.
In the field of information, though not as good as Huo'erhaiya, Aomo Lindun has also achieved some success, fully understanding the principle that different people handling different matters shows efficiency.
And in the matter of Ailisuzhi, we must return to that original statement: the same sentence, when spoken by different people, also has differing persuasiveness.
In the field of psychotherapy, the patient's sense of security is always especially important.
Treating through speech is called talk therapy——this not only can truly exist, but is widespread in the vast majority of psychological clinics.
Of course, these clinics do not rely solely on talk therapy; appropriate medication assistance is also a part, after all many mental disorders can be controlled or even eliminated by hormone regulation.
However, such medication also requires strict control, after all the human body is the most exquisite creation, hormones are even more minute and important within it, each artificial intervention needs close observation, and moreover, professional knowledge in this area is still lacking, and Aomo Lindun lacks certification to purchase professional equipment, so naturally he has no access to this mature system.
Fortunately, he merely considers himself an unlicensed quack; although those seeking help truly meet the criteria of psychological patients, his work has never been to cure the other's psychological illness.
He is merely a listener; even if he occasionally acts as a stand-in psychologist, what he holds are mostly unorthodox remedies.
For example, mobilizing the people around the help-seeker.
【Sijiali: Huh? Really? Does senior Suzi need comfort?】
【Yuehuanshe: Strictly speaking, these are some invitations
Hope you will not directly let her instantly realize you are specially considerate of her; she is recently in a state of neural sensitivity, far more active and irritable than usual, hmm…… perhaps directly describing it as a menstrual period is also not impossible】
【Sijiali: …It really isn't a menstrual period, right?】
【Yuehuanshe: …To be frank, even if it were me, discussing this topic with a female middle school student would also feel somewhat absurd and guilt-inducing; let's return to the original topic, okay?】
【Sijiali: I also don't want to talk about this topic! 【crazy. jpg】】
【Yuehuanshe: Hmm, my】
【Sijiali: No, no, that's not what I mean】
【Yuehuanshe: Okay, classmate Chiji】
Just as I have said many times before, the endless pleasantries stop here; our communication can be more direct, so you might adopt the manner you used when talking with classmate Futtejia.
【Sijiali: That…that is also something I have said many times is impossible; this is also too disrespectful to the senior's trainer.】
【Yuehuanshe: Listening to advice is also a form of respect】
【Sijiali: Moreover, letting Futtejia know I am speaking to you like this is also troublesome】
【Yuehuanshe: Then, how about limiting it to online?】
【Sijiali: Huh?】
【Yuehuanshe: Chazuo will support you; if needed, it can create an environment for you and Suzi to interact】
Of course, during a period of heightened neural sensitivity, she may quickly notice your consideration, but as long as you bring up the topic first and proactively discuss her abnormality, it will be fine】
No response came from that side, and Aomo was not surprised either.
For sudden greetings, then seeking help, and quickly moving into the main topic of fast-paced conversation, Dahe and Chiji obviously lack sufficient experience to cope; this also proves inversely that in her many interactions with Suzi, the latter has never once displayed that demeanor in front of others.
In Ailisuzhi's social circle, there are already many important people, but the one she cares for and pampers the most is only this lowerclassman.
You simply cannot expect every middle-school girl to be like Kalian, ignoring the age gap and conversing with you calmly and openly.
Moreover, this little girl, whether toward Suzi or herself, harbors a rare respect filter, largely because Suzi's persona in front of others creates that.
On the contrary, it adds excessive etiquette barriers to communication, causing even the ever-ritual-observant Aomo to sigh over etiquette itself.
Of course, he also understands.
What he dislikes is not etiquette itself, but the excessive emphasis on etiquette under the Jidong style,
【Yuehuanshe: Then, this will be troublesome for you】
【Sijiali: Good…okay! Leave it to me!】
After waiting a moment with no response, Aomo ultimately chose a ending that seemed like talking to himself, and the other party's swift follow-up reply also indicated she had not left the screen.
Just being torn, perhaps also……
【Yuehuanshe: In actual practice, if you have any questions, you can ask me and Chazuo; I especially recommend the latter.】
The demon completely believes that this little girl still has a bit of hesitation, troubling her about how to act.
Xiqifeng's team is harmonious, their personalities not particularly conflict-sensitive, and generally they cannot teach this girl such troublesome caution.
The bold, proud girl just needs to be bold and proud; likewise, Xiqifeng, who similarly emphasizes the spirited nature of horse girls, generally also intends to let this lively, cute little girl in front of elders proceed on her path.
【Sijiali: Huh? Why?
Ah, is it because you're busy?】
I hope you remember this from the year-end performance…… I really don't want to know whether Xiqifeng has recently been gossiping about his own affairs in front of horse girls; Aomo merely paused his finger.
【Yuehuanshe: One part of the reason
Another part of the reason is that the Ailisuzhi I know differs from the Ailisuzhi known by Manchester Chazuo.
【Sijiali: Ah, are you considering the direction of exposure?】
Yuehuanshe: Clever miss, I think there's no need to emphasize further; Chazuo caring for her is only natural, while my concern might perhaps make the situation backfire.
【Si Jiali: Then I shouldn't be bothering you, right?】
【Yuehuanshe: Since it's my request, what trouble could there be?】
It's no problem; if you need my help, I'll provide you with information that has already been screened.
【Si Jiali: Good, good, as expected of you, your thinking is truly thorough.】
【Yuehuanshe: Not worth mentioning, just basic skills. In fact, your trainer also has no shortage of similar thinking; he just isn't keen on explaining.】
【Si Jiali: Even if he were to explain, he's too lazy to say it this clearly.】
【Yuehuanshe: This is also a style.
I heard the class bell ring, our talk ends here; I'll look forward to your good news, Chiji classmate.
【Si Jiali: 【】】
Only the urgency imposed by external force can yield such a concise and to-the-point response.
It also counts as finally letting go of some formalities at the end of the conversation; Aomo satisfiedly put away the contact, and immediately saw Chazuo nearby, slightly leaning this way to look at the screen.
"You've worked hard too, help her well," he said, patting the other's head in passing, twirling the high white ahoge, "After this, I hope you two can supervise each other."
A double entendre, corresponding to one sentence for each person, made Chazuo nod.
Even though that shameless behavior had never been settled by the trainer, she still didn't want to pass up such an opportunity to make amends through merit.
And not far off, Suzi, holding a test tube, approached: "What secret talk, who are you helping?"
"I'm helping you; later I'll go to the trainer's team-building, hoping that by then you'll be able to do enough self-disciplined night runs."
"Huh? With your condition, still team-building? First drink this!"
"Let me ask first, this shouldn't have side effects, right? Just like the one given to Chiji classmate?"
"What do you think? Guess if you can get the same treatment as Chiji kun, guinea~pig~kun~"
End of Chapter
