Chapter 1823: What Counts as Decent
Chen Yuan's eighteen thousand income really set a good opening.
After Aunt Zhang Hong asked that question, many people had already squeezed around, and everyone might not want to find him as a partner, but...
This is the same principle as the hot video on the internet 【Can this man be married】; we don't look for a partner, it doesn't prevent us from joining the fun!
Later, you can also fob off the leaders and parents: "It's not that I don't want to find one, it's really that the salary is too low. This time at the matchmaking, someone introduced a monthly salary of..."
How perfect!
And after Chen Yuan, there was another Wu Fang.
Wu Fang's salary wasn't that high, but after adding all the subsidies, he could have about 【amount】 every month.
His advantages Aunt Zhang Hong also magnified—
【Not on good terms with parents, brothers, and sisters-in-law, basically no communication after marriage, and won't live together】
This is of course a disadvantage, for example, taking care of children in the future, even if there is a nanny watching, there is no family member to lend a hand.
But the problem is, there are always some girls in this world who are not good at and don't want to get along with elders, and they can't help but be moved when they see this.
Aunt Zhang Hong classified the advantages and disadvantages like this, completely putting herself in their shoes.
When she was a daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law was like the vast majority of mothers-in-law in that era, first, she couldn't see her idle, second, she couldn't see her spending money, third, she couldn't see her taking an egg every day to supplement her daughter's body.
In short, some people count on their mother-in-law to help, some don't count on it, she wrote down the conditions, everyone look for themselves!
After discussing this in detail, and seeing more people gathering around, she was happy, the pages flipped, and there was information about girls.
"Daughters, you are all working in units, your thinking is mature—I have a few girls here, I don't know how to pick partners for them, can you help me look?"
"Yes, yes!"
More girls gathered around this small table, and by the way, pushed their male colleagues from the same unit back:
"Go, go, back a little."
Their male colleagues couldn't even sell themselves in their own unit, so the shortcomings were obvious. Maybe the village girl was very simple and very solid? They couldn't let them fool her.
Male colleagues:...
Why? Why?
Are they the kind with official government positions? Those are quite popular outside, too. It's just joining in the fun; it doesn't mean they'd actually take a fancy to a country girl.
Without a government position, and with parents who don't have pensions or anything, their own families wouldn't look favorably on them.
The male comrades muttered in their hearts, but the girls were numerous and powerful, so they had to sit on the periphery, pricking up their ears to listen.
Aunt Zhang Hong was genuinely asking: "There is a Yun Duo in our village, her parents favor boys over girls, she and her sister ran out, and they won't go back to their hometown in the future."
"She, she said she graduated from university, in fact, she finished her freshman year and suspended her sophomore year—but this is also the girl's consideration, she relies on her sister to support her, her sister married in the village, and can earn tens of thousands a year, the two sisters feel sorry for each other, and this, Yun Duo suspended her studies."
"But our village
This matchmaking event is not pit-falling at all, say what you have, she is actually in such a situation."
The girls frowned: "Nowadays, looking for a job is very important for a university degree. No matter how difficult it is, grit your teeth and apply for some loans, at least get a graduation certificate."
"Yes. Besides, didn't she suspend her studies? The most important thing is to save money to finish the rest, don't rush to find a partner, right?"
"Yes, find a partner, what if the man supports her studies, but the two feelings are not good and want to break up, naturally weak, not justified."
Everyone chattered, Aunt Zhang Hong also earnestly recorded what they said, and then explained:
"Yun Duo didn't plan to find one, I persuaded her. I said it's hard to have a matchmaking event, whether it works or not, you have to go in and see more, observe more, and accumulate some experience."
"She, she plans to work for a year or two, save more experience and money—originally the salary was 4000, but this girl. Very hard-working, very motivated, often gets bonuses, now she can earn five or six thousand yuan a month."
It's not that any student who just graduated can follow Secretary Zhu's arrangement and toss the real estate process.
The physical examination Song Tan arranged for her shortly after she joined the job had already tested her ability.
According to Yun Duo, there are many teachers teaching how to handle things now—there are experienced old people in the village, high-achieving students, and Secretary Zhu who knows everything, etc. This environment may not be in school.
She tries her best to gnaw the work she can gnaw, and when she can't gnaw it later, it's time for further study.
At this time, tuition and living expenses have been saved, and she has to return to school with one heart, and she has to work hard to get the graduation certificate and the short board that should be made up.
Boss Song promised her that as long as the certificate is in hand, there is still her position here.
Although the assistant position can't wait for herself for so long, she has work experience, and she is not afraid to change to other positions.
"So," Aunt Zhang Hong deliberately brought her out, her true purpose being to ask these girls with government positions:
"What should she pay attention to when choosing a partner in the future?"
The girls' eyes lit up.
What a motivated plan! This girl doesn't need to look at people, she knows her personality is very tough. The boss promised to be an assistant, she must be very meticulous and thoughtful.
And feel sorry for her sister, no family burden, self-reliant...
Oh my!
Many girls even lamented: if they were men, they would also want to find such a partner! What are you afraid of supporting two years of university? People are really good!
So some girls said:
"Auntie, then remind her, she is so excellent, don't easily wrong herself."
"Yes, yes! Don't look for a very poor family, or a family with a lot of burdens—the more responsible and self-reliant you are, the easier it is to be wronged and suffer in such a family."
"Also, remember to pay attention to the man's family, if his parents look down on her, don't force it, don't do anything!"
"Auntie, don't worry for now, this person is constantly improving, wait for her to graduate and re-employ, maybe the salary level will be very different from now, maybe there will be more choices then."
Such a powerful girl, maybe she also took the civil service exam.
But having said that—
"The salary of your village farm is quite high."
"Yes, yes!" Aunt Zhang Hong was proud:
"Not only is the salary high, but it also includes food and housing. The taste of 4 meals a day is very good. Look at what I wrote above, if they don't have other expenses, they can't spend 500 yuan a month."
This also has the reason for Song Tan's real estate that has no shadow yet.
After all, if the house is 500,000 or 600,000 in full, ordinary workers always feel that it is far away to save.
But the house in the county, the down payment may be less than 100,000 yuan...
Then work hard, grit your teeth, and you can save almost a year! With this plan hanging in front, the farm workers are very motivated now!
Otherwise, the matchmaking event, why is everyone willing to join the fun after a little persuasion? It's really that the future of settling down and living is very promising.
She flipped open two pages again: "Then help me look at these two, they are sincerely looking for a partner..."
Who?
Self-study sister, stomach-cutting brother!
Stomach-cutting brother is the most urgent, he just wants to live a life with a wife and have a baby.
Didn't dare to think about it before, because in the big city, even settling down urged him like a cow and horse, where is the energy to accompany his girlfriend, and what conditions are there to raise children?
His mother urged him, saying that he is a big man, just thinking too broken, how can children not be raised?
Stomach-cutting brother wanted to smile bitterly.
Yes, under current conditions, children can naturally be raised. But drinking milk powder and drinking rice porridge, can it be the same thing?
When the child is older, the family's money can only let him play in the park, but look at other people's children can go to the amusement park—not to mention comparison, just say the child wants to go, but because of money, the parents' heart can be tasted?
His former colleague girl, raising a cat, the cat is sick and goes to see a doctor, doing a physical examination is both distressed and tangled—people are poor and ambitious!
But now it's different.
Anyway, don't want to go back to the hometown, working here is really nourishing, and the future house has a place—
His own savings down payment house is no problem, the salary has no place to spend, eat well, sleep well—
People, also follow the genes.
When pursuing survival, reproduction will be released.
But once survival can be guaranteed, the instinct of reproduction begins to surge.
This is not it, he signed up for the matchmaking event enthusiastically, just want to have a good partner, seriously fall in love!
He is now a free man who doesn't work overtime, has no wine table team building, and has no party!
And self-study sister.
She didn't count on men with one heart, but like stomach-cutting brother, life is good now, people are also raised in high spirits, and life is regular and healthy all day long—
Just feel very suitable for raising a child.
She can fight and endure hardship, and didn't get a big illness like stomach-cutting brother, so the money saved is more than him, and now the stable mood is richer.
It's just, sigh, in fact, there are several in the security team that she thinks are good—the reason why she thinks several are good is because in the city, she looks at her colleagues and friends, they are all workplace cows and horses, and it is very difficult to live.
Therefore, it is particularly difficult to find such self-disciplined, diligent, clean, and even responsible people.
But don't look at her sufficient work experience, love experience is miserable, think about it, everyone is a colleague, directly contact, not talking about the loss is a bit big.
She also has some taboos about company internal romance (although the farm doesn't care about these at all), so thinking about it, she still plans to list her requirements clearly, and see if she can find a compatible one at the matchmaking event.
Because it is a group activity, everyone is in contact with others, talking about it or not, it does not affect future communication.
And Aunt Zhang Hong now solemnly took out their information, and also asked in detail about the requirements of both sides.
Now let the girls in the city see, what aspects should we pay attention to when looking for a partner in a unit?
If you like someone, how to contact is decent?
?? It is said that I was as thin as a hemp pole when I was a child, and it was specifically pointed out that I was too thin in the poor mountain village. My mother steamed an egg for me every day, and my grandmother had some criticisms about this...
? But this is not aimed at me being a girl, because my grandparents went through the food pass, were very harsh on food, all food was reluctant to eat, all saved up, all family background relied on hard savings, my father didn't have enough to eat before adulthood...
? In short, just an example, people have many sides, my grandmother is a kind person, my grandfather grazed cattle for the landlord when he was a child, often beaten, often beaten to the point of not being able to climb up, my great-grandfather favored boys over girls, but the wild grapes sent by relatives, he put them on the head of the bed with a dustpan, reluctant to eat, while complaining that I didn't sweep the floor well, while giving me grapes to eat...
? Everyone don't argue about sensitive topics because of this! ===== CHAPTER 1824 =====
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