Chapter 931: Women's Opportunity

Wang Jingjing was still not convinced.

"If I don't spend this money now, I can live very well."

"This money can not only improve my living conditions, but I can also use it to better myself and expand my network."

"Only then can I seize more opportunities."

Yang Lao sighed.

"Miss, have you heard the saying, 'Home is a stronghold, home is a harbor'?"

"No matter how many storms you have weathered, there is always a warm place waiting for you."

"If you truly disregard family ties, you will become rootless duckweed, though you cannot feel it now."

"When you are lonely, desolate, and cold, facing countless setbacks, you will then feel the preciousness of family ties."

"I feel that your parents and siblings still value family ties."

"They are not heartless people."

"My advice is to get along well with your family."

"Cherish this precious thing called family ties."

"As you grow older, you will increasingly feel the cold, calculating nature of interest-based relationships, and at that time no one will talk to you about feelings."

"Family ties are truly important."

"Of course, if your family truly treats you merely as a blood bank, being harsh, heartless, and cold toward you,"

"It's no problem for us to consider ourselves, because when no one cares about you, you must look out for yourself and give yourself a foundation to stand on."

"I still hold that opinion: if the family is decent, we shouldn't hurt feelings too much."

"Of course, I am not asking you to give endlessly."

"First, secure your basic livelihood."

"Then determine how long you need to contribute."

"One or two years, just endure and get past it; if it continues like that, it's clearly not acceptable."

"Talk it out properly; I believe most families are still fine."

"Such extreme families are, after all, a minority."

"Just now, I watched the video you sent me of that person; I think everyone should learn her spirit of independence and self-reliance, and the courage to say no."

"As for men, the matter of being DINK (dual income, no kids) still requires caution."

"Because most of our men are actually fine."

"As for what she said about washing clothes, cooking, doing housework, and looking after children,"

"This is common throughout the world."

"Those without money take care of it themselves, with parents helping; those with money hire help."

"The experience a harmonious family brings is also a very precious part of life."

"Moreover, nurturing life itself is an act of high emotional value."

"Those without children cannot possibly experience how fun children can be."

"Watching a tiny tot grow strong brings a sense of pride."

"Of course, I do not agree with our own over‑involved child‑raising."

"Don't overdo extra education; just find his talent and cultivate a hobby."

"Still, being able to raise them to adulthood is already rare and precious."

"Don't wear yourself out; a harmonious family is the best education."

"In that case, I'll pour some cold water on you."

"This world has long been set up so that ninety percent of people are ordinary."

"You see online those successful people who can talk at length about their experiences."

"They are one in a thousand."

"Obsessing over becoming that one in a thousand itself carries a huge chance of failure."

"I have heard a saying: a person who acknowledges their own ordinariness can achieve the extraordinary."

"I strongly agree with that saying."

"First, define yourself as ordinary; each step toward the extraordinary will bring immense mental enjoyment."

"Even if we fail, we remain happy."

"If from the start you define yourself as that one in a thousand, life will leave only anxiety."

"Unless you are truly a genius."

"You can absolutely control your own success."

"If that is the case, we would have even fewer worries about parents, men, and children."

"Successful people will have everything."

How many people in the world consider themselves extraordinary, yet how many actually stand out? Most are just the common crowd.

Many people become depressed and pessimistic from being tormented by failure, but that is actually unnecessary.

Ordinary people also have ordinary happiness.

Wang Jingjing is naturally a person with ambition.

Naturally, she is unwilling to be mediocre.

Especially in this world where everyone pretends.

It looks glamorous on the surface, but in reality it's a mess.

Especially some women.

Being caught in the vortex of desire, it is very difficult to be happy.

Vanity makes people do many regrettable things.

Yang Lao, you've said all this, but it's not because you're rich.

You don't understand the life of ordinary people like us.

That's a mire; if we don't strive, we will never have a day to rise above.

We can only struggle.

I want to get out of the mire, but my family keeps pulling me deeper into it.

What you see is just a few thousand.

But in my eyes, that is my weapon to get out of the mire.

We must exert all our strength to have even a slim chance.

Isn't that so?

Yang Qing did not answer her directly; instead, he asked.

Do you know why southerners are so successful?

Yang Qing didn't wait for her answer.

Because their clan consciousness is deep.

When doing things, they like to pull fellow townspeople along.

Their initial startup funds were largely borrowed from family and fellow villagers.

Many hands make the fire high.

Relying on one person's strength is very weak.

The first thing you can rely on is home.

Then come relatives and friends.

Your way of making yourselves isolated and alone, frankly, I don't understand.

Independence and freedom are important, but if you don't learn unity, success remains difficult.

As for how an individual can achieve success, I've already said it.

Online, people have already verified whether the methods I teach are useful.

You can refer to them.

Here I will discuss success from another angle.

I think for women, husband and children are also relatively simple and easy paths to success.

Speaking of background, relying on family, many people cannot rely on it.

After adulthood, one must rely on one's own efforts, but the result is that one's abilities are simply not outstanding.

At this point, a woman can choose to find a good husband, thereby changing her fate.

If that doesn't work, there is another way: invest in one's children.

Roughly speaking, before twenty you rely on family; after twenty you rely on yourself; by thirty, if there's still no prospect, you should raise your children well; if you can marry and have a child at twenty, by forty you can see whether you can rely on your children to change your fate.

If even that doesn't work, then it's about all you can do—just get by however you can, as comfortably as possible.

If you are capable, everything is fine.

If not, this is the simplest way.