Chapter 450: Whether they are boys or girls, they need to protect themselves when they are out

"I thought you hadn't eaten yet, so I brought you some food, but I didn't expect you were already eating."

Lu Xiu Bai felt a bit embarrassed and hid the food he had packed behind his back; the food in front of his wife was much more exquisite than what he had in his hands!

Pei Yan Ting couldn't help but laugh when she saw this. Her sister-in-law was naturally very good to her and had already sent exquisite food over with Amei.

There were even desserts and fruit after the meal, all cut up nicely, one piece per toothpick, so she didn't even need to peel them herself.

"Come over and eat together?"

Lu Xiu Bai heard his wife's invitation, hesitated for a few seconds, then happily carried his lunch box over.

"Wife, give me the son; I'll hold him so you can eat first."

Lu Xiu Bai wasn't very hungry; he had already had wine and food at the other table, but seeing his wife eating alone in the room while holding the baby made his heart ache.

If it weren't for bearing children for him, his wife could be eating and drinking heartily at this time too.

His sister was right; childbirth was an irreversible injury to women and caused great distress to a woman's body.

As a husband, he should accompany his wife more, help her take care of the children, and share the responsibility of raising them, rather than being a hands-off manager.

"Fine, Shuai Shuai is quite stifled staying in the room; why don't you take him out for a stroll?"

Pei Yan Ting was preparing to send her husband away; the smell in the room wasn't very pleasant, and mixed with the aroma of the food, the scent was even harder to describe.

As an adult, she could endure it, but the baby had just been born not long ago and needed to breathe fresh air.

"That works too. I'll take Shuai Shuai out for a spin, let him meet some people, and then I'll come back to keep you company."

Lu Xiu Bai was sometimes actually quite wise in a simple way; like now, he didn't blindly resort to male chauvinism but used a consultative tone, discussing things with his wife.

Pei Yan Ting felt sweetness in her heart when she heard her husband say this, but she told him to hurry up and go, don't delay her eating here.

She didn't know if other military couples got along like they did in private.

They clearly weren't newlyweds anymore and had passed that sweet initial stage, but for some reason, in their daily life, there were moments when she would fall in love with her husband all over again.

After he left, she rubbed her burning cheeks, thinking the room was still a bit stuffy.

Hmm, eat first.

No way, he was carrying his big son and happily approaching his brother-in-law to show off his big son.

"Brother-in-law, look, Shuai Shuai can open his eyes now. He can also blow bubbles, fart, and hiccup."

Everyone else was left speechless, let alone Jiang Ye, the person involved.

Weren't these all basic operations for a newborn baby?

What was there to show off? Besides, Jiang Ye had a son himself; having taken care of his son until he grew this big, wasn't he familiar with children?

Shuai Shuai was also quite bold; seeing so many people didn't make him burst into tears. Instead, his eyes darted around, looking at everyone present, and then he pointed at the pretty aunt, wanting a hug.

Shen Man reached out and took the soft little guy. At this time, the little guy was only a few days past his first month, and everything about him was small and soft.

If you held him, you had to be careful; you couldn't hold him just any way, for fear of causing cartilage contusions.

Although the child was small and his bones could grow back, if there was an irreversible growth trend, it would affect the child for the rest of his life.

Now that everyone in the courtyard was their own people, they could pass him around and tease the little guy, but if they encountered outsiders, they couldn't easily hand the child over to them.

Some outsiders couldn't stand to see your child doing well and would deliberately, secretly bully the child, making them cry or hurting them.

The child was small and couldn't speak, so they couldn't complain about who bullied them or what was used to bully them.

Parents could only suffer in silence, and the child would have been abused.

There were also disgusting people; what would they do if they couldn't stand to see a child doing well?

They would take a needle to prick the child, or secretly stick the needle into the child's acupuncture points.

Because the needle was very thin and the wound was small, if you didn't look carefully, you might not even discover it!

There was another type of person who would deliberately dip chopsticks in wine and drip it on the child's lips, making the child drink.

Alcohol would stimulate the child's brain, causing cerebellar atrophy, delayed desire, or even direct developmental delays, turning them into a fool.

So, those with children and those without should pay attention to this point.

This was the dangerous period when the child was small and couldn't speak.

Once the child learned to speak, learned to express words, and recognized people, then a new crisis would arrive.

Crimes committed by acquaintances—those who know, understand.

Whether they are boys or girls, they need to protect themselves when they are out.

As parents, you cannot skip safety education just because you are too embarrassed to talk about it.

Sometimes a parent's negligence can lead to a child being unable to distinguish what kind of treatment they are experiencing.

Because of fear, because of embarrassment, they choose to hide it, ultimately causing childhood trauma. After becoming an adult, they will have stress reactions, and when they recall this memory, they will doubt life.

Some people will even become depressed; an unhappy childhood will accompany the child for their whole life.

If the school organizes this kind of safety education lecture when the child enters primary school, please parents, don't make a fuss, and don't stop the teacher from explaining this course in a panic.

Teachers will use their wisdom and methods to popularize safety education for children, making the best solutions for situations they might encounter in the future.

Overprotecting children only locks them in a greenhouse; when the child becomes an adult and leaves this greenhouse, they might not be able to survive easily under the scorching sun.

"Shuai Shuai, have you eaten?"

"Yi ya, yi ya."

"Let Ancestor hold you?"

"Yi ya, yi ya."

The grandfathers present were all sincerely hoping that the children present would have a bright future and live well; how could they think of using chopsticks dipped in wine to tease a child?

One by one, they put down their bowls and chopsticks, wanting to hold the child and tease him.

But the child, who had been drinking wine and smelled of alcohol, didn't care about them at all, completely curled up in his aunt's arms, turning his butt toward these ancestors.

This look was even cuter than his sister's.

Lian Lian saw her younger brother and quickly accelerated the speed of gnawing on her big duck leg.

Aunt and the others had said that they couldn't feed the brother any food; the brother could only drink milk now, and other things couldn't be given to the brother, or he would choke.

She was afraid that if her brother saw her eating the fragrant big duck leg, he wouldn't be able to resist the temptation and would ask her for some; if he did, would she give it to him or not?

So the best way was to eat the whole duck leg into her stomach, so her brother wouldn't see it!

It must be said that Lian Lian's move was a sister's love for her brother, only she loved the duck leg more deeply... ===== CHAPTER 451 =====