Chapter 3081: Romantic
Wei En crossed his fingers on the table and analyzed social self-confidence for Reed.
This thing is actually simple to say, just like ordinary self-confidence, it belongs to positive incentive. The more successful you are, the more confident you are. The more benefits you get through success, the more stable your self-confidence will be.
For example, a thing that was originally difficult to handle, through you finding someone to negotiate with him, making the difficulty of the thing lower, or directly handling it, this counts as social success.
Not only that, maintaining a relatively harmonious relationship with your roommate for a long time, having a say in the interest group on the Internet, and achieving good results in communication with strangers in an emergency are all helpful to establish social self-confidence.
The establishment of social self-confidence is generally the earlier the better. Children can be group leaders in kindergarten, become children's kings in the community, get praised after speaking in public, and succeed in buying things independently, all of which are accumulating social self-confidence.
To put it in Northeast dialect, children must be generous.
There is research proving that many introverted people are not really introverted, but have low social self-confidence. In their growth process, the social success rate is too low, leading them to think that social interaction is completely useless, or they frequently encounter setbacks in a certain field of social interaction, leading to the rejection of this aspect of social interaction.
A significant example is that some people are particularly lively and cheerful on the Internet, but they can't open their mouths in reality. They clearly get along well with classmates in college, but they are like a wooden man when they see relatives at home. Most of these are because they have encountered social setbacks in this regard, and their social self-confidence is insufficient.
The social setbacks Reed encountered were all-round, which led to the fact that wanting to establish social self-confidence for him is really as difficult as ascending to heaven. But as long as there is a glimmer of hope, with his talent, he wouldn't have mixed into the social circle like this.
After informing Reed of the theoretical method of establishing social self-confidence, he also felt that it was unlikely to succeed. He is already so powerful, and others are not willing to give him an extra look. When will this be established? By then, Susan's baby won't be running all over the ground?
Since he can only choose the quick method, Wei En didn't hide it. He said directly, "Now let's change the scene just now. Your date object is not Susan, but a mystery of the universe truth that you have not cracked."
"Ah?"
"Literal meaning. Now you want to date a mystery that you have been very interested in and have not cracked, but as long as you crack it, you can master the truth of the universe. What will you do?"
Reed's eyes lit up, and he said, "Truth of the universe, is there really such a thing?"
"Just assume there is. Now you two discuss the date location, what will you say?"
Reed took out his phone and started typing and recording while asking, "What is your current state? Can you complete the series of actions of moving to the date location and successfully completing the date? Have you dated before? How did you move to the date location? What kind of environment, temperature, oxygen, and light is the date location?"
"Who is your date object? What kind of reaction did you have with him? Is there any catalyst in the middle? How is the reaction process? Is there any danger in the reaction? Is there any reaction product? Is there any follow-up investigation result for the reaction product?"
"Stop!" Wei En shouted to stop, and then said, "Can you ask one question by one? Are you doing a speedrun here?"
"Scientific research pays attention to efficiency. Since this universe truth can speak, of course I have to ask clearly. Otherwise, should I leave it for Tony Stark to ask?"
Wei En rubbed his forehead helplessly and said, "It's not that there is really such a truth, no one is competing with you... Okay, the first question."
"Uh, how are you doing now?"
"Assume that the date object has become Susan again, how will you ask this question?"
"Back to Susan again?" Reed still didn't react. He thought for a while and said, "If I ask so suddenly, she should be very strange, right?"
"Then don't be so sudden, be tactful."
"Hmm... are you okay?"
"I'm not bad, what's wrong?"
Reed understood it at once. He thought about the second question he just asked, transformed it in his mind, and said.
"We mentioned before that we will have a date, what do you think? Can you handle it?"
"Of course, I'm looking forward to it."
"Hmm... actually, I don't have any experience, what about you?"
"My last date was in a mall in Manhattan."
"Oh, how did you get there? Did he drive to pick you up?"
"Yes, there was a bit of traffic that day."
"What do you think of that place? Will the air conditioning in the mall be a bit cold? How is the decoration taste? Is the restaurant delicious?"
Reed seemed to have suddenly realized, his speaking speed became faster and faster, and his eyes became brighter and brighter.
"Actually, it's not bad."
"Then... then the date object... uh..."
At this time, Reed stuttered again, but seeing Wei En's encouraging gaze, he still bit the bullet and said, "Then it seems that the date object is also not bad?"
"That depends on your performance. Where do you hope to go?"
At this time, Reed thought of the truth of the universe again, and he answered subconsciously, "Of course it's the machine in my laboratory... uh, I mean, there is a very good restaurant near my laboratory. After eating, maybe we can visit the laboratory."
Speaking of this, Reed suddenly clapped his hands and said, "Yes, I should invite Susan to visit my laboratory. She hasn't been there yet. If she goes, she will definitely be shocked by my experimental results. She is also a scientist, she will definitely understand..."
"Then how do you two turn the topic from experimental results to talking about love?"
"Uh..." This was obviously a bit beyond Reed's cognitive scope. He said, "Isn't discussing experimental results talking about love?"
Very good, Wei En thought, Peter and Gwen's wedding is still a bit too urgent. They should hold it with you two, and hold an unprecedented romantic... industrial expo together.
"I seem to understand a little bit." Reed said, "Your meaning is that I should treat Susan as a research topic of mine, right?"
"Yes, and it's the kind of mystery that you can master the truth of the universe as long as you crack it." Wei En said, and then he added a sentence in his heart, "If you two make it and give birth to Franklin, you will really master the truth of the universe."
Reed suddenly became excited. He clenched his hands into fists, tapped the table lightly, and said, "Yes, why didn't I think of it earlier? I haven't fallen in love, but I have been doing research. This is what I am good at. I think the two are not much different."
"But you must pay attention." Wei En reminded, "Remember to transform, don't say your inner thoughts, otherwise she might think you want to catch her for research."
"No, Susan is also a scientist, she understands this set." Reed had already started rubbing his hands and said, "She drank a lot of wine yesterday. Do you think I should make her a breakfast of love?"
"That's up to you. I'm just a psychiatrist, not an emotional consultant. Chasing girls is your own business."
After speaking, Wei En carried his tray and left the island counter. Just as he arrived at the sink to prepare to wash the dishes, he saw Stark in pajamas running down from upstairs in a hurry.
Wei En looked back at him in surprise. Stark definitely didn't wear a nightcap when he slept last night. That hair was like being blown up by a cannon.
"I said yesterday that I would make breakfast of love for Pepper. Hurry, hurry, Wei En, help me prepare ingredients!"
Wei En rolled his eyes slightly. At this time, Reed also walked over to get ingredients in the refrigerator. Stark rushed into the kitchen, bumped Reed aside with his butt, and took the egg rack out of the refrigerator.
"What are you doing! I also want to take eggs, give me the egg rack!"
"What do you want eggs for? Hurry up and get out of the way. Pepper takes care of little Morgan very hard. I have to give her a rich breakfast!"
"What does this have to do with you? You won't really think that you are chasing your secretary by your own ability, right? If the president of Stark Industries wasn't you, you wouldn't even have the chance to see your fiancée."
Wei En felt that Reed was also a good seedling for studying psychology. This broken mouth and arrogance are comparable. He doesn't open his mouth, and when he opens his mouth, he stabs into other people's hearts.
Stark has always been a person who likes to struggle. Among the rankings of the number of problems he struggles with, "Is others loving my money or loving me" is among the best. The essence of this problem is "leaving everything I have now, am I still worth loving", and "everything I have now and what I am, which one is me".
All the above problems are the paraquat of anxiety.
Reed has no guilt about hurting others through words. This is the so-called "no one is invincible if you are shameless". Wei En had long seen that Stark couldn't quarrel with Reed at all. Looking at Stark's consultation fee, he decided to pull a partial frame.
"If you two keep arguing like this, the ladies will wake up soon, and the breakfast of love will naturally be ruined..."
They both looked at Wei En again. Wei En said, "There are not many other ingredients in the refrigerator. Why don't you let your mech fly to Los Angeles and buy more back?"
Stark immediately realized that only he could appear in Los Angeles to complete the purchase in a few minutes and come back in a few minutes. Reed couldn't do it. Reed didn't bring any professional equipment when he came out this time, and he himself was an ordinary person. If the ingredients were gone, he would be helpless.
Stark immediately grinned. When the mech door opened, Reed got in directly.
At this time, Stark had already set the program, and the mech had taken off. He rushed out of the hall in a hurry, but couldn't catch Reed back.
Stark could only shake his head and return to the hall, scolding while adjusting the life support data of the mech. After all, he couldn't really kill Reed.
Stark could only shake his head and return to the hall, scolding while adjusting the life support data of the mech. After all, he couldn't really kill Reed. ===== CHAPTER 3082 =====
All the above questions are paraquat for anxiety.
Reed felt no guilt about hurting others through words; this is what is called "the shameless are invincible." Shiler had seen it long ago: Stark simply couldn't out-argue Reed. For the sake of Stark's consultation fee, he decided to play favorites.
"If you two keep arguing like this, the ladies will wake up soon, and the breakfast of love will naturally go down the drain..."
The two of them looked at Shiler in unison again. Shiler said, "There aren't many other ingredients left in the fridge. Why not let your armor take a trip to Los Angeles and buy some more?"
Stark immediately realized that he was the only one who could appear in Los Angeles, finish shopping, and return in a few minutes. Reed couldn't do it; Reed hadn't brought any professional equipment on this trip, and as an ordinary person, he would be helpless without ingredients.
Stark immediately grinned and summoned his armor in front of Reed. But as the saying goes, "the shameless are invincible"—the moment the armor's door opened, Reed dove straight inside.
By this time, Stark had already set the program and the armor had taken off. He rushed out of the hall in a hurry, but he couldn't catch Reed.
Stark could only shake his head and return to the hall, adjusting the armor's life-support data while cursing; after all, he couldn't really let Reed die.
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