Chapter 364: She wouldn't dislike it, she would be too grateful to be late

Anyone who has raised children knows that children's joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness come quickly and go quickly.

One or two years old is the age when they don't understand anything, naughty and mischievous is not a problem, mainly heartless and lungless.

Those who like to tease children tease them during this period; when they get older, the little guy's temper forms, and it's not fun to tease.

Lian Lian saw that her younger brother and younger sister could ride a big horse, anxiously looking around, wanting to find her father to take her to ride a big horse.

After searching for a long time and not seeing anyone, she stared pitifully at her uncle.

Jiang Ye took his son to run two laps around the courtyard, changed to carrying his niece on his back, took the little one for a stroll for two laps, satisfying the little one's wish.

Causing the grandfathers to laugh and say he spoiled the children too much, even Si Si from Wangjie's house wasn't left out.

The bath he took, after a while, he was sweating again.

Fortunately, the TV stations for TV shows were increasing day by day, and there was a channel specifically playing movies from Hong Kong and Macau.

Suitable for all ages, when the time came in the afternoon, the TV was turned on, the elders watched intently, and the children also watched in a daze, quiet and quiet.

Amei went without saying; she only saw what a TV was and what a movie was after coming to the family courtyard and being at Auntie Shen's house.

Although there was a TV in the propaganda room, it wasn't that you could watch whatever you wanted.

Many people grabbed the channel, sometimes even arguing with each other, arguing very fiercely.

So she usually watched TV at Auntie Shen's house, watching whatever the old masters put on.

Over time, she became familiar with the TV.

Before she got married, when she saw the kissing scenes on TV, she was very embarrassed, her face red and ears red.

Now that she was married herself, she knew that there were more intimate things between husband and wife.

Over time, seeing the kissing scenes, she didn't have the shyness she had when she was a girl.

"Amei, when do you and your man plan to have children?"

Shen Man asked casually while collecting small clothes for the children, feeling that the little ones changed every day, and the small clothes from last month were a small section shorter again.

If Amei wanted children, she would wash the small clothes clean and put them away in advance, so that when Amei's child was born in the future, she could just pick them up and wear them.

This is also something that close people will give clothes and collect clothes.

Like that Ji Xianxian, she wouldn't take the initiative to give.

"Auntie Shen, I want to have children two years later, I don't want them now..."

Amei smiled shyly; she and her husband had discussed it, waiting for him to be promoted to a regular level in two years, and when the allowance was higher, then have children.

Now live a world for two, and save some money.

He wanted to buy her a sewing machine first, and she was preparing to apply for a kindergarten teacher at the Red Education Garden after Auntie Shen didn't need her to look after the children anymore.

If she couldn't apply, it didn't matter; she could sew and mend, just set up a small stall at the North Gate.

Things like zippers, changing waist sizes, pants length, etc.

These sewing and mending chores were a piece of cake for her, and she was familiar with them.

Charging a few cents to a few mao depending on the situation, earning one or two yuan a day shouldn't be difficult.

Mainly because there were quite a few soldiers in the army, men were careless, and it was common for clothes and pants to be torn during training.

If there was a sewing machine, she had the confidence to eat by this.

"When you want children, oh no, if you get pregnant, tell us. Our family has many children, and there are many small clothes changed down.

At that time, if you don't dislike it, you pick some that can be used for the child to change and wear."

"Mm mm, thank you, Auntie Shen, I've noted it."

Amei was a bit flattered; she had always known that Auntie Shen and her aunt had a good relationship, and she was also very concerned about her.

She wouldn't dislike it, she would be too grateful to be late.

Anyone who has raised children knows that children change every day, small clothes, shoes, and socks are all changed quickly.

She had been taking care of the children at Auntie Shen's house for a few months, and knew that the children's food, clothing, housing, and transportation were all the best!

The small cotton clothes were the kind of soft cotton that didn't scratch hands at all!

Not to mention exquisite items like outer clothes and shoes.

Auntie Shen treated her as her own, willing to give the clothes her children had worn to her, she was too grateful, how could she dislike it?

If it were in her rural hometown, where would children have good cotton clothes to wear?

Crawling around naked, or wearing small clothes changed from old clothes saved by adults...

Thinking of this, she was infinitely glad that her parents were willing to let her rely on her aunt and uncle.

If she was at the age of getting married and still stayed in her hometown, without a good way out, not only would she have to fight with her mother-in-law, but also fight with her aunts...

That kind of life, one look to the end!

Fortunately, with the help of her aunt and uncle, she embarked on a different life!

Because she was surrounded by kindness and became a lucky person, her mind became much broader, and she wouldn't care about her man continuing to help his mother-in-law's two younger brothers and sisters.

When the mother-in-law's younger brothers and sisters grow up and get married, their responsibility as brother and sister-in-law ends.

As for what their life will be like in the future, that is their own fate.

Similarly, her own brothers and sisters are the same.

Their couple's ideas are unified in this regard.

Have children two years later, when the conditions are better and the economy is better, then the child is born, and can enjoy the best of everything.

In short, she doesn't want her own children to repeat the bitterness she has suffered.

Shen Man chatted with Amei from time to time; since they wanted children later, they should pay attention to contraception.

Condoms are currently the best contraceptive items.

Contraceptive rings are very harmful to women's bodies, so she wouldn't suggest Amei to get a contraceptive ring!

Speaking of contraceptive rings (intrauterine devices), one has to mention this strange invention, which makes people love and hate it!

Contraceptive rings come in all kinds of strange shapes, and in theory, it is a safe, effective, long-acting, and reversible contraceptive tool.

It has multiple mechanisms such as mechanical stimulation, chemical substances (copper ions), and hormonal effects**, from interfering with sperm function, preventing ovulation to hindering implantation, reducing the probability of conception in all directions.

Its high efficiency (failure rate <1%) and long-acting nature (5-10 years, depending on the type) make it one of the widely used contraceptive methods globally.

But this kind of thing is essentially harmful to women's bodies.

In this era of talking about sex, being shy, implicit, and introverted, women don't have the right to more choices.

When men worry about ligation damaging sexual function, they often let women get a contraceptive ring.

Many women, after getting a contraceptive ring, have varying degrees of rejection, pain, gynecological diseases...

Because of shame, because of fear, because of worrying about spending money to see a doctor, they often endure the discomfort themselves, ignore the abnormality of the body, and forget that there is a contraceptive ring in the body.

Over time, the contraceptive ring, which originally had a service life of 5-10 years, will stay in the woman's body for decades, even until the day she dies.

A small number of lucky ones, or they wake up to see a doctor, or their children grow up and study medicine later, and inadvertently remind their mothers to take out the rusted, flesh-grown, deformed intrauterine device... ===== CHAPTER 365 =====