Chapter 365: The elders were right, study more, study changes fate!

Amei was stunned, it turned out that the contraceptive ring had so many drawbacks.

"Auntie Shen, my aunt said she wanted to seal her belly, I have to tell her about the harm of the contraceptive ring."

In Amei's heart, her aunt was her most important relative, and she couldn't let her aunt suffer losses.

Shen Man lowered her voice and told Amei:

"That's fine, but you don't have to worry about your aunt, your uncle has already had a ligation."

"What is ligation?"

Amei was not a medical student and didn't understand these terms.

Asking if you don't understand is not shameful.

"Ligation is, is a small surgery that men do. After this surgery, men and women have a husband and wife life, and there will be no possibility of letting women get pregnant again.

So the premise of ligation is that the couple already has children, or both sides don't want children..."

Shen Man tried to use simple and easy-to-understand adjectives to tell Amei.

In modern times, this is a very normal medical surgery.

In this era, it is an extremely rare phenomenon.

To put it bluntly, men will have some male chauvinism, some men have high awareness, and will not go into a dead end, because they love their wives, so they don't want their wives to bear the risk of childbirth.

Some men will go into a dead end, preferring to let their wives have multiple abortions and bear the risk of childbirth, rather than cutting a knife there themselves and doing a small surgery.

"Looking at it this way, it's still better to use condoms first."

Amei thought seriously, among family planning supplies, condoms are still reliable.

Her own man isn't at home every day, and it's common for him to go out to perform tasks and not come home for ten days or half a month.

Every time he comes home, at night, it's always unavoidable...

"Tomorrow I'm at work, I'll ask my colleagues to get you more. This thing can be stored for one or two years without being opened, so you have it just in case.

When you want children, don't use it. Tell me at that time, I'll give you some food supplement methods, nourish your body well, and then prepare for pregnancy..."

Shen Man, as someone who has been through it, associated something from Amei's shy expression and stopped this topic in time.

"Prepare for pregnancy?"

Amei heard a fresh term again, and the doubt in her eyes was obviously very strong in thirst for knowledge.

"Yes, prepare for pregnancy. Preparing for pregnancy is to nourish your body well, let you be ready to welcome the arrival of the child. The child born after preparing for pregnancy will have a much stronger body, and in the future growth process, the number of illnesses will be very few..."

Although most people in this era don't have the awareness of preparing for pregnancy, it wins in that there are no industrial products flooding in at this time.

Regardless of men or women, they rarely come into contact with substances bad for the body such as black-hearted cotton, gutter oil, industrial sugar, string rooms, etc...

So nourishing the body well will definitely give birth to a healthy child.

Of course, individual cases are not included.

What is an individual case?

That is, cousins, cousins marrying, marriages between collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Due to the high genetic similarity between close relatives, the probability of carrying the same recessive pathogenic genes is much higher than that of non-close relatives, so close-relative marriage will significantly increase the risk of recessive genetic diseases in the next generation, which may bring serious harm to the family and society.

There are also rare diseases such as cerebral palsy, low intelligence, albinism, congenital deafness and mutism, phenylketonuria, hemophilia, sickle cell anemia, epilepsy, etc.!

Genetic disease patients often need long-term treatment and nursing, which will bring heavy economic pressure and mental pain to the family.

For example, children with phenylketonuria need lifelong low-phenylalanine diet, and the treatment cost is high.

Those with severe mental retardation may lose the ability to take care of themselves and need long-term care by the family.

So the government, law, and moral ethics levels all prohibit close-relative marriage!

Because of some bloody cases in front, the subsequent "Civil Code" of the country clearly stipulates—

Direct blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations are prohibited from marrying.

Even if both sides are voluntary, close-relative marriage is invalid in law and is not protected by law!

Amei listened with relish, her eyes hard to hide admiration and shock, and sudden realization.

It turned out that the elders said, study changes fate.

It turned out that studying more will understand so many principles!

Although Shen Man didn't prepare for the university exam, even if she didn't need to prepare for the exam, Shen Man had the qualifications and ability to be recommended to university two years earlier!

Auntie Shen, how can she know everything?

Clearly, they are about the same age.

No wonder her aunt would call Auntie Shen sister, so amazing!

In the future, if she has children, regardless of whether they are boys or girls, she must supply the children to study!

The elders were right, study more, study changes fate!

Before dinner was ready, Amei carried Si Si and said goodbye politely.

No matter how Auntie Shen and the others tried to persuade her, she wouldn't eat dinner at Auntie Shen's house.

When she promised to look after the children, she said she would pack lunch, and she would definitely abide by it seriously, not crossing the line!

"This child, her heart is too solid."

Old Master Lu's evaluation of Amei was very pertinent, hardworking, very diligent in work, responsible...

Never thought of being lazy, never thought of crossing the line, is a good girl with a sense of boundaries.

"Grandfather, I'm back!"

A cheer, he couldn't help but roll his eyes.

Distant relatives are smelly, that's the truth.

When the grandson is not by his side, he misses him.

When the grandson is by his side every day, he is annoyed by him!

Plus it might be that the granddaughter and granddaughter-in-law take care of his daily life more, so his heart can't help but lean towards the granddaughter and granddaughter-in-law.

It's hard not to compare, the granddaughter-in-law comes home, and there is work in her eyes.

Chopping wood and carrying water, boiling water, stir-frying and cooking, nothing needs the granddaughter to worry about.

The granddaughter-in-law works overtime every day, covers shifts, and looks tired after work.

Not cooking, not doing housework, he understands.

Moreover, the granddaughter-in-law is pregnant with her second child now, her body is heavy, and it is even more inconvenient, he understands even more.

But the grandson, really can't see him and misses him, sees him and wants to beat him, wants to nag, wants to make the grandson work.

He asked other old partners, they all said he was unhappy seeing his grandson.

Sigh, what to do.

He thought about taking care of his great-grandchildren, great-great-grandchildren would turn his hair white.

But he didn't expect it, it was looking at his own grandson that worried his hair white.

Already twenty-something, and soon to be the father of two children, the uncle of two nieces and nephews, why is he still not mature?

And the grandson's special constitution, he also had a big stone in his heart, unable to breathe.

If the special constitution disappears, if the grandson performs special dangerous tasks, can he still turn danger into safety?

Others worry about their sons, he worries about his grandson.

Wants the grandson to be carefree, and wants the grandson to be mature and steady...

It was he who was too greedy, he reflected.

Lu Xiu Bai didn't know what his grandfather was thinking, he ran into the courtyard happily, didn't even get intimate with his daughter first, but hid one hand behind his back, mysteriously showing off to his grandfather:

"Grandfather, guess what I picked up today?" ===== CHAPTER 366 =====